Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Surviving Infidelity

Cheating Wife Or Husband - Is Your Spouse Likely To Cheat? by Timothy Cole

Infidelity is a common problem. In fact, cheating has been a problem throughout recorded history and across cultures.

And all the evidence indicates that people struggle with monogamy. Despite our best intentions, close to 50% of all married partners will cheat at some point during a marriage and affairs are common among dating partners as well.

Lending further support to the idea that infidelity is common, research consistently shows that roughly 10% of all children are not the biological offspring of the assumed father.

While infidelity is common, it is not easy to detect. In fact, there are no hard and fast "signs of infidelity." But with that said, a lot of research has looked at infidelity and some people are simply more like to cheat than others. When it comes to infidelity not all people are created equal.

What factors influence an individual's willingness to cheat?

Typically, when it comes to infidelity men and women tend to be a little different. For men, cheating is influence by their mate value (e.g., attractiveness, social status, resources, etc.), their opportunity (e.g., time spent away from partner, amount of social contacts, etc.), and their willingness to take risks.

For women, cheating is influence by their financial independence, the quality of their romantic relationship, as well as the opportunities that present themselves (e.g., time outside of the home, contact with others, etc.).

With the advent of the internet, it is now possible to compare your spouse against a statistical profile of people who cheat. Based on this comparison it is possible to estimate of the "cheating potential" of your romantic partner.

Knowing if your partner is likely to cheat will not solve the problem of infidelity, but it may help make you more aware of the risk and take steps to avoid that outcome.

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Wednesday, September 20, 2006

Surviving Infidelity

Surviving Infidelity

Article Title: Break Up Doesn't Have To Mean Break Down
Author: Richard MacKenzie

Fact: Break Ups and Divorce are on the increase worldwide.There are many reasons for this and it was even reported last week that biggest growing issue is infidelity. It is also one of the harshest reasons to cause a split. The reason for this is that most of the time the affair is kept from the other partner,thus resulting in an explosion of emotions when it finally comes out. In some cases the pain caused by this type of break up can lead to the individual feeling that life is meaningless and empty,especially with all of the emotional pain that has beeninflicted on them. The worrying news that ‘linked’ suicide rates are on the increase too, is also not encouraging.

Every week in my clinic I come across cases like this, but I noticed that with a little help and perseverance, this negative situation can be turned around quickly and in most cases to the great benefit of the individual that I am treating.

If you are going through a break up or divorce at the moment you will understand how amazing it would feel if all of the pain and anguish ‘just disappear’ allowing you to rebuild your life.

Hypnosis is one of the best ways, if not the best way to getyou to a point of feeling good again about yourself. Just imagine that in just a few days you could not only feel good,but also ready to move on or ready to win your loved one back if you wanted them. Hypnosis can boast to this success, because it deals specifically with the part of the brain (mind) that is creating all of the confusion and unhappiness. It builds you up allowing you to feel strong and able to move on when nothing else seemsto help. It allows you to have a ‘level’ head in a situation where you may have a lot of decisions to make. Hypnosis to help you through your time of need is now alsoavailable online through the format of MP3 downloads.

I myself have spent months putting everything that I know about thisarea into a powerful, but simple step-by-step program that empowers the individual to not only feel ‘OK’, but feel GREAT! So if you are suffering at the hands of a messy break up – whatare you waiting for? Use Hypnosis and start rebuilding your lifetoday – And get the life of your dreams.

About The Author: Richard MacKenzie is a leading professionalin the field of Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy -http://www.richardm ackenzie. - He also has a great rangeof Hypnosis Downloads at his sitehttp://www.richardm ackenzie. htm

Surviving Infidelity