Monday, July 02, 2007

Sign Of A Cheating Husband

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Sign Of A Cheating Husband

Thursday, May 10, 2007

Sign of A Cheating Husband

Sign of A Cheating Husband

An interesting article, Sign of a cheating husband And how to catch him, by Andy Valenzuela.

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Sign of a cheating husband And how to catch him

If your husband is frequenty attending meetings at the office, being away for long hours under the pretext of work or going online for a long time with no way to back it up, it can start you thinking...It could be a sign of a cheating husband!

If you think your husband is cheating, but don't want to hire a spy and make it look unethical, carry out the following tips.


1...The first thing that your husband does to contact the other person in his life, is make calls. You cannot be around your husband all the time to know what conversation he or is making.

To find out who's on the other line and what they are talking about, you can discreetly record calls. This can be done on any telephone extension in any part of your residence.

This gives you a great edge as you can listen to all the dialogue your husband makes and if there is anything incriminating you can nip it in the bud.

2...The second thing that he will do is send emails or chat online. What if every email or conversation that your husband sends online got mailed to you to read? Software called eBlaster does precisely that. eBlaster records their emails, chats, instant messages, web sites visited and keystrokes typed and then automatically copies this recorded information to your email address.

3...Apart from the above, you can have little helpers around to make your work much easier. Don't ever make your friends or relatives do the spy work for you, for there is always the danger of em "spilling the beans" and ruining your marriage. You can get help from inanimate objects.

They never speak. For instance, there are hidden cameras available in shapes unimaginable! They are so discreet that even you will not be able to make out that a state-of-the-art camera lies within. Hidden spy cameras range from wall clocks to houseplants to table lamps.

4...You can also install a GPS to find out where your husband has been going around lately. GPS is an acronym for for Global Positioning System. Its a system that allows you to determine the latitude and longitude of a receiver on Earth by calculating the time difference for signals from different satellites to reach the receiver. In short, it shows you where your husband has taken his vehicle and how long he has been there. Now you will know where your husband goes in the name of work.


Take note that the method in which you use the spy gadgets may or may not infringe on the privacy of others. Iquire about the regulations in your jurisdiction for the laws applicable or for the intended use of these products You may not like what you find out. The things you feel you may NEED to know you may not WANT to know. If your suspicion turns out to be unfounded and not true--and your spouse discovers your covert activities--you may potentially do serious (and possibly irreparable) damage to your marriage.

If you are really serious about discovering if your husband is actually cheating on you, here is a solution that has worked for many people Click Here! However, this IS only for people who honestly want to know the truth once and for all!

About the Author

Andy Valenzuela writes articles about various topics.

Sign of A Cheating Husband

Wednesday, May 02, 2007

Sign Of A Cheating Husband

Sign Of A Cheating Husband

An interesting cheating husband article, How I Caught My Cheating Husband, by J Logan. I hope you find the cheating husband article of use.

My suspicions had been building since shortly after my wedding. My husband was frequently out of town of business, his trips almost always conveniently overlapping the weekends. Early on I learned of a few times he was in town when he was supposed to have been away. I assumed from that point he had been cheating, but I had no proof.

In terms of our sex life, the honeymoon was over after a few short months. The next few years were a sexual drought. As he was rarely around physically or emotionally. He continued to provide a very comfortable life for me and our daughter, and I suppose he felt like this gave him carte blanch permission to be as distant as he liked.

It was over a year after my first suspicions of infidelity before I ever confronted him about it. At that point I was reasonably sure there was somebody else, or several somebodies. I asked the question amid several other questions so he didn't assume I was truly on to him.

Of course he denied anything extramarital. He gave the tired excuse that he worked so hard he had little time or energy left for anything else. He told me he still loved me very much and the way things were going he would in a position of more money and less travel very soon and that he would be able to retire at around 50. If I was just patient, everything would be great, he would have the time and energy to shower me with affection, we would travel the world, etc.

I wanted to believe him. I wanted what he promised so bad it hurt. But I was already convinced the was cheating and I didn't believe a word he said. But I pretended to believe him and backed off, hoping I could catch him in a situation he couldn't deny.

I wanted to think like a private detective. I read PI books, fiction and otherwise. I watched PI movies and TV shows, not because I thought they were very realistic, but because I wanted to catch the few reasonable flashes of pseudo-reality and wanted to try to look at everything from an analytical standpoint. I watched all the true crime detective stories I could and talked at length to some cop friends of mine.

I realized after several months that I lacked some important resources that real investigators had. Notably absent were time, anonymity and cash. I didn't work outside the home, and while I did have credit cards to do with as I wished, I couldn't very well purchase surveillance equipment or hire professional help without being found out.

My friends became co-conspirators in my quest for truth. They were proxies for payments for spy equipment, I borrowed their vehicles for use in exercising surveillance techniques I'd learned from books and movies, and their homes served as the investigative headquarters.

For many months the searches obtained no proof of infidelity, though there was more than enough circumstantial evidence that everyone involved was certain he was cheating. I suspected for a long time that the cheating was happening out of town, and with my daughter at home, it was somewhere between difficult and impossible to chase him around the country and acquire proof of infidelity.

My end game remained the same, but I had developed and intermediate goal of somehow knowing where he would be during one of his trips. That way I could either physically be there to catch him or have a place to send a PI if I could muster the courage to pull the trigger on such an endeavor.

As his lies seemed to become ever more frequent, I knew I could rely on little he said as far as my plan to catch him. He was always honest about where he was traveling to and when he would return, however. Business took him to St. Louis at least twice a month. Which was, I would soon discover, very convenient.

After many different plans--some horrible and poorly thought out--I discovered a way to narrow down his rendezvous points and quite possibly catch him in the act, though I was several time zones away. I would have to get some help from an outside source, I would have to spend some money, and I would have to be sure.

I planned it out for weeks. I took meticulous notes. And I waited for him to shower. As he was washing away everything but his guilt, I went through his cell phone, feverishly copying down every number I didn't recognize. In a few minutes I had over thirty phone numbers, the calls going back a little over a week. Although I was moving too fast to have included all the notes I wanted to, I circled the numbers I noticed were dialed at strange hours.

The next day I retrieved my hidden notepad and began the arduous process of identifying phone numbers. I figured out that about two-thirds of them were legitimately work related or otherwise non-suspicious (numbers of family, friends, a Chinese take-out joint near Busch Stadium, etc). The remainder of them, mostly cell phone numbers, were a mystery.

According to most self-proclaimed experts, there is no way to identify a cell phone number. But the web offered many opportunities to hire out that very research. I found out the hard way that most such sites are simply trying to scam people. I was victimized at least four times before I realized the way to separate legitimate investigative sites from rip offs. The legitimate cell phone search investigation sites--the few that there are--do not make the absurd claims that the rip off sites do. Those offering "unlimited searches" or "instant results" were obviously relying on some sort of database. As there is no cell phone database, these phone number search companies were clearly being dishonest.

Once I found a legitimate site I felt comfortable with, I placed an order to research a few cell phone numbers. The results were sent much quicker than I thought. And it turned out that the name and address info they provided was exactly right, as I recognized the names at once. While these numbers did nothing for my infidelity investigation, I was excited to have found a legitimate source to identify cellular phone numbers.

The source I had found happened to have the lowest price on the web (among those companies that actually provided current, accurate info). But the price was only to research a single phone number, and I had eight more numbers to submit. At $45 per number the cost of this clandestine investigation was adding up.

I bit the proverbial bullet and ordered all eight cell phone number search investigations at once. And like clockwork, a few hours later I received the results, identifying the name and address associated with each of the numbers. I only recognized a few of them, but one stood out. It was a St. Louis number and belonged to a woman I'd never heard of.

After chewing the info for a few days, I finally contacted a PI a friend of a friend had recommended. I wasn't sure about what to do next, but as we discussed the situation, and the money it could take to follow my husband around St. Louis from the time he arrived at the airport to the time he left, I decided to take a gamble.

After some non-prying conversation, I learned that the business meeting was the morning following the night my husband would arrive. I instructed the PI to sit on the woman from the cell phone search. He was to keep an eye on her house to see if my husband showed up there. He was to follow her if she left.

I wouldn't get his report until after the weekend. It was a long, difficult time to wait. But it was well worth it.

Here are the important portions of the report I received:

7:45pm-Arrived at the subject's residence. A single car is in the driveway and someone is clearly home.

9:26pm-A rental vehicle arrives, driven by an unknown male, who is met enthusiastically in the driveway by a woman assumed to be J. XXXXXX (we have no picture and client requested we not make contact. The two go inside. 9:31pm-The license plate of the vehicle identifies it as belonging to J. XXXXXX, as suspected

9:40pm-Lights in the house are extinguished

9:51pm-Our office received word from a contact that the car was rented to our client's husband.

10:45pm-The two leave in the rental car. We follow them to a diner a few miles away. The male is identified as our client's husband.

11:55pm-The pair leaves the diner and returns to the residence, where they remained the duration of the night.

The investigator's report included "particularly damning pictures." That is how my attorney phrased it.

About the author
J Logan is a financial writer in Boston,MA. He is currently pursuing a Doctorate in Economics at Northeastern.

Sign Of A Cheating Husband

Friday, April 27, 2007

Sign Of A Cheating Husband

Sign Of A Cheating Husband

A really good article showing you how to know the sign of a cheating husband, hope it helps in some way.

How can you tell a sign of a cheating husband? In my experience it hasn't been that the women didn't know a sign of a cheating husband, it has been that they ignored them to keep the peace. Looking the other way. A Cheating husband leaves many signs and it is easy to catch him when you know what to look for and especially how to go about it.

With the women that I have helped catch their cheating husbands, it started with seeing the signs and then doing something about it. Let's look at some of those each sign and you check off the ones that apply to you:

1. The cheating husband and his cell phone. Is the cell phone on silent mode when he is home? One sign is that it is on vibrate and does not ring. Do you ever see him glance down at it then put it away without every saying a word. Does he go to the bathroom for long periods of time and talk on the phone. Watch the cell phone.

2. Working late. Now this will be a pattern that just jumps up out of nowhere. All of the sudden the cheating husband has to work late and if you notice the paychecks- the overtime doesn't show up. This is a big sign of a cheating husband. Does he have emergency calls out late at night and leave for hours at a time. This is definitely one sign of infidelity.

3. Communication. Is the talking less than it normally is? Does he keep the distant look in his eyes? When he is with you- somehow you notice that he's off in another world. He may start fights over the smallest of things just so he can leave. He just doesn't want to talk about it. This is another sign of a cheating husband. When a husband is cheating the talking comes to a halt. Unless you question him. Then he will talk for days trying to get out of the sticky situation.

4. Grooming habits change for the better. Now out of second field he actually cares what he looks like. He buys new clothes and joins the gym. The treadmill comes out of the basement and he is sweating hard for somebody- Just make sure it's for you.

5. The cheating husband in the bedroom. Now other experts will tell you that the intimacy in the bedroom will dry up. But I have found this to not always be the case. In some situations, we have found that he more intimate and comes up with some new moves to try... Yes, there is a point where he falls in love with the lover and then the intimacy dries up because in his warp way of thinking- He feels guilty.

6. Last, is a sign of a cheating husband will come forth in his computer habits. Does he stay on the computer working way late into the night? Does he use email accounts that you don't know the password to? You can place a keylogger software on his computer and he will never know a thing about it being there. The software I have even shows screenshots of everything he looks at on the internet. Several women caught their husband after just one night. Very powerful strategy.

Now there are obvious other signs of a cheating husband. You know the lipstick on the collar and the hotel receipt laying on the dresser but these are far and few between. If you were paying attention to these signs, the truth is that several of these signs of a cheater could be going on and he wasn't cheating. The signs in and of themselves are not the answer. You must get solid evidence then confront him.

about the author
Former Detective and Crime Scene Investigator, Trey is helping women find out the truth about whether their husbands are cheating. If you need to find out or just need to collect solid evidence, then visit his site for free tips at

Sign Of A Cheating Husband

Monday, April 09, 2007

Sign Of A Cheating Husband

An interseting article below about, the signs of a cheating husband, if your husband is cheating you need to know. If your spouse is cheating on you, be sure before you accuse, just in case they're not! A cheating spouse will always leave signs of cheating, you just need to investigate and be sure.
Sign Of A Cheating Husband

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The 5 signs of a cheating husband

Are you afraid that your husband is cheating on you? Do you want to find out if your husband is cheating on you? Here are the 5 signs of a cheating husband, coming from a guy that has cheated, been caught, learned his lesson, and has been cheated on. Experience a plus, yeah right!

Sign #1 - Your husband has begun to stay out than normal and isn't there to hold you at night.

This is the first sign of cheating. If your husband or boyfriend has begun staying out later than usual and on a regular basis, he is probably cheating. He should be there to hold you and keep you happy and warm at night. Yes, you should allow him to go out with his friends from time to time and he should be able to stay out late, but if this is a regular 3-4 times a week thing, then he is probably cheating. You need to confront him.

Sign #2 - Your husband seems very distant and decides to work longer hours and later nights.

Usually when a man begins to work later and longer hours there are a couple of reasons behind this. First, he might be working on a very large project and needs to work longer to ensure it gets done correctly. Or second, he is cheating on you.

There is always the possibility that a man tells you the truth and is actually doing what he says he is doing. There is a better chance that he is cheating on you. This is how I would approach this situation. Surprise your man at work with a nice dinner and a bottle of wine. Make sure it is a late visit when he will be one of the only ones there and you can be alone with him for a half hour or so.

You will find a couple of things with this. One, he is cheating and don't be surprised if this is the case. He may not even be at the office, don't let this surprise you. Or second, a better option, he is happy to see you, can really use the break and you become closer to him and he appreciates the efforts.

Sign #3 - Your husband continually becomes irritated when you bring up things that you want to do or share with him.

When people get irritated on a regular basis with the ones that they love it is usually because they are guilty about something. Confront him now!

Sign #4 - Your husband smells like a woman's scent

This is a dead give away. In order to smell like a woman, as a guy, you have to get close to a woman. If your man smells like a woman when he comes home, then it is time to confront him.

Sign #5 - Your husband has a low sex drive

This is another dead give away. ALL men LOVE SEX. There is no other true statement in the world. If your man doesn't want to have sex with you, then something is up. Try to plan a sexy, romantic date, and if you don't get a good response chances are he is getting his somewhere else. Confront him and find out!

I have given you 5 signs of a cheating husband. These also apply to boyfriends as well. Just because your man is cheating doesn't mean it cannot be worked out. Remember there is a reason why you love him and maybe there is a deeper issue that needs to be worked out.

Most men that cheat do it for a reason and don't really want to cheat. Usually they are not getting something that they need from their mate. This doesn't make cheating right, but if you are really in love with your man, then take the time to try to work things out before you just kick him to the curb.

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Sign Of A Cheating Husband

Saturday, April 07, 2007

Sign Of A Cheating Husband

Sign Of A Cheating Husband
An interesting article below, showing some classic signs of a cheating husband, there are many more, but this is a good place to start.

5 Signs Of A Cheating Husband!
Are there any true signs of a cheating husband? Wait, before I answer that question, let's just refer to Newton's law of physics for a while here. It clearly, states that for every action, there is an opposite reaction. For every cheating husband there are definite signs of his cheating behaviour. The problem is many woman tend to ignore these signs, and sometimes even blame themselves for their husband's sudden weird behaviour.

Oprah Winfrey, the queen of daytime talk shows has said so many times on her show that if you feel something is wrong, then something is most likely wrong. Always, go with your gut feeling. What is the worst thing that could happen if you are wrong? It is better to know the truth, and take the required actions, than to pretend nothing is wrong.

For those ladies, that need to know the sign of a cheating husband, here you go.

These are some of the most common signs:

1. In most cases, the first signs of a cheating husband are usually the sudden onset of working overtime. Not only that but you may also start to hear of emergency meetings, sometimes at weird times of the day like late at night. The funny thing is that all that overtime never seems to show up on his pay check at the end of the month.

2. Yet another thing to watch out for is sometimes right at the beginning of an affair, due to the onset of guilt feelings the husband may actually start to be more affectionate than he usually is, especially if you had been going through a dry spell, as far as your intimate life is concerned.

3. Also, the cheating husband's relationship with his family almost always changes. You may find that he starts to become more distant, cold, or fault-finding. For example, he may start to blame his family, especially the wife, for his strange behaviour.

4. Grooming habits change. If your husband is cheating, might just suddenly start to become more attentive to his personal appearance. Simple things like may buying new clothes and underwear, bathing, more careful grooming, a new cologne, a new exercise program, etc. Be careful, especially if this change comes about without you mentioning anything bad about his appearance.

5. Last, but definitely not least, another tell tale sign of a cheating husband is when your husband stops communicating with you and tends to pick fights instead which often end up with him stomping out of the house and making it a point to declare that you are just too difficult and impossible. In such cases, all he will be doing is, trying to unload the guilt to you instead or trying to justify to himself why he had strayed and is cheating on you. It's like he is saying it is your fault he is cheating.

There is always the obvious signs of a cheating husband, like lipstick stains on his shirts, smell of female perfume that does not belong to you and sometimes you may see female stuff in his bag such as nail polish, sunscreen and so on. If you even suspect your husband of cheating, act on that suspicion, investigate, be nosey you have every right to be, he's your husband.

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Friday, April 06, 2007

Sign of A Cheating Husband

Sign of A cheating Husband

There are many signs of a cheating husband, a change in appearence, time away with work, taking more phone calls, being very careful where he leaves his mobile phone.

But be sure before you accuse him of anything, you may be wrong!

Sign Of A Cheating Husband

Sunday, February 04, 2007

Sign Of A Cheating Husband. 5 Areas To Watch Carefully

The cheating husband’s physical appearance will change, he knows it has to. A man having an affair (or even thinking about having one) will want to make himself more attractive. He will begin to dress smarter, his appearance will alter in some way. Be alert for new clothes, new aftershave and his personal hygiene. These are usually the most visible signs of infidelity. If he suddenly has a personal makeover there is a good chance he's trying to impress someone, that someone may not be you!

A cheating spouses conversation and mannerisms will change. Listen carefully to what your husband chooses or refuses to talk about. Usually his conversations would include the same places and people, after all we are creatures of habit. Suddenly he starts talking of new places and people using very different tones in his voice and mannerisms.

The cheating husband will definitely use work as an excuse. Obviously, one of the main excuses to meet with someone, is work. Here are a few of the most common work related excuses, ‘I have a meeting tonight, so I’ll be back late, don’t wait up’. ‘I have a weekend training seminar to go to, I don’t really want to go, but I guess I’ll have to’. So look for definite changes in his work habits, as the affair progresses the time away with work will increase.

A cheating husband will spend, spend, spend! So watch carefully, he will say the money is for business lunches, gifts for company sales reps, employees, etc. Remember, when a husband is cheating, he will come up with many weird and wonderful excuses. It doesn’t matter how careful the cheating husband is, the financial cost will eventually have an effect on the majority of families.

The cheating husband will relate to the family differently. The way your husband communicates with you will change, suddenly the little things that used to bother him, no longer do. An example could be, kids making a noise when he comes in from work, used to annoy him, but suddenly he smiles and makes a pleasant comment about the kids. This is a sign that his mind is on something else, something that he finds very pleasant. He suddenly has more patience, used to get annoyed about the small things, suddenly he doesn’t seem bothered.


Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Cheating Husband Stories: How Internet Turns Husbands To Liars

A very interesting article by infidelity expert Mark de Smit. Mark obviously leaves out the real peoples identities. A very sad story, but some interesting things to be wary of concerning cheating husbands.

The Slipping Lives Of Peter And Stella
Peter and Stella (not their real names) have been married for ten years. Peter is a crane operator while Stella spends her time looking after their two lovely daughters. Their family life has been good until a few months ago when Stella suspected Peter of having extra-marital affair.
It all started when Peter suddenly became too interested with computers. At first Stella thought that like all his friends, Peter was just fascinated with online action role playing games. In fact two months ago, he took a chunk of money from their savings to buy his very own computer and have it connected to the Internet.

Initially, Stella thought that the computer was to be used by everyone in the family. But to her surprise, Peter put in secret access passwords. Therefore Stella and the children had no way of using the computer. Stella also noted that Peter became so engrossed about his privacy and spent more time in front of his computer--especially during late nights-- than with his family.
One Saturday morning, as Peter was asleep on the sofa, Stella gathered her courage and took a peep at the computer, which Peter forgot to turn off the night before. In it she saw a chat link full of words of endearment between two user names. Stella would not have been suspicious had she not seen the same secret affectionate name Peter had called her during their courtship days.
The Bitter End For Danny And Lucy
Danny and Lucy bought a computer three years ago. They had it connected to the Internet because they need it for their small time online store. While the business they had was flourishing, they were able to afford another computer, this time a laptop for Danny's use.
One day, a mysterious e-mail addressed to Danny bounced to the common e-mail address they used for marketing their online shop. It contained a picture of a young woman wearing nothing but her lingerie. At first, Lucy dismissed it as some wicked marketing stunt by the numerous pornographic sites in the Internet.

But in the few days that followed, Lucy's suspicion was aroused by their missing telephone bill. She was puzzled to find it in the garbage bin already paid. Lucy took a quick scan of the crumpled telephone bill and found out four international calls to a number she does not recognize.

She copied the telephone numbers on her notepad and dialed using the telephone in the kitchen. After a brief moment, a voice on the other end of the line, clearly European accent, said "Hello, lover boy!" Lucy quickly hanged up and suddenly all darkness surrounded her sight. Lucy fainted and hit her head on the sharp corner of the hard wooden breakfast counter.

Lucy was in a coma for two days; after which, she died. Danny knew that the true cause of her death was not her banging on the counter top but rather his cheating on Lucy.
With the advent of Internet communication tools, men's cheating capabilities have increased. The Internet has become a device that both tempts and fulfills the lustful fantasies of men that could lead to full time extra marital affairs.

Knowledge before hand is the only way women can protect themselves and their families from cheating husbands. Reliable spy software, like PC Pandora, can enable wives to monitor their husbands--when they are online or even offline.

How to Catch a Cheating Wife? Confirm Your Suspicions
About the Author
Peter and Stella (not their real names) have been married for ten years. Peter is a crane operator while Stella spends her time looking after their two lovely daughters. Their family life has been good until a few months ago when Stella suspected Peter of having extra-marital affair.

Saturday, January 27, 2007

Infidelity, the grass is always greener, isn’t it?

An interesting infidelity article from expert, Michael Thomas.

Why did I do it? You weren’t there for me, because I don’t know you anymore, you’re different and you’re definitely not the person I married. It’s your fault, what did you expect.

Sound familiar?

Obviously there are thousands of other excuses, but the above excuses are from a cheating spouse who no longer feels loved or needed.

The honey moon period isn’t just a few weeks on holiday, it lasts differing lengths of time depending on the couples involved.

I know couples that have married, gone on their honeymoon, come back and that’s it! An affair then the dreaded break up. Indeed I know couples who had affairs and finished on their honeymoon.

I also know couples where the honeymoon period has lasted 20+ years, then bang! An affair and It’s all over.

Most husbands and wives who cheat on their spouse fully expect that they can carry on with their marriage and their affair(s) with little disruption.

Most cheating spouses want both and if caught cheating do not expect their marriage to end. Other unhappy cheating spouses get into an affair with the sole purpose of ending the marriage, they simply choose not to do the sensible thing and talk with their wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend.

Sometimes, the grass seems greener, but more often than not affairs are doomed to failure.

An affair doesn’t have to mean the END!

Couples that actually try to work things out after an affair have tremendous success, if you have children you MUST try, don’t give up. If problems are worked out correctly the relationship can grow into something very special. Sometimes you just need to try.

As to the answer to the title of this article, the grass is very rarely greener on the other side!

Michael Thomas is an expert in cheating spouses, surviving infidelity and saving marriages.
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Thursday, January 25, 2007

Husband Caught Cheating By Tissue Box

A great story by Ralph King, who is a spy expert.

This is a great story of how a wife caught her cheating husband easily with a hidden camera kit concealed in a normal tissue box.

She had suspected her husband of cheating for a long time, she recognized the little clues much like anyone else would, she though he was seeing her while he was supposed to be at work and had reason to believe they went out together in his car, that's the family car.

So one day while her husband and herself where out in his car she pretended she needed a tissue, cursing that she didn't have any herself and to the fact that there were not any in the car. She then told him he needed to put a box of them in his car, just for this type of emergency. The next day she told him she had bought him a box while out shopping and she went out and put it on the parcel shelf above the back seats with the undetectable camera facing the front, and hid the recorder in the box as well.

The next day before her husband left for work she turned on the camera and recorder.
When the husband picked up his girlfriend he had no idea all his antics were being recorded.
Her husband returned home that evening completely unaware that his wife had recorded his every move.

When she finally accused him of having an affair, which incredibly, he actually denied having, she then confronted him with the video evidence she had recorded. That is when the denials finally stopped...

He had been Caught Red Handed by a Tissue Box....

If you need help planning a way to get the evidence you need, get free advice and the best spy equipment from the experts at The Spy Shop.

About the Author
Ralph King is one of the Spy Experts at The Spy Shop which can be found at With over 17 years experience he will be able to help you with "your Mission"

Tuesday, January 09, 2007

Sign of A Cheating Husband

A great article on Cheating Spouse signs, some great things to look out for. Really good advice, from expert, Thomas Martin.

Cheating Spouse Signs

Cheating Spouse Signs By Thomas Martin

In talking to thousands of people embroiled with a cheating spouse or infidelity over the past two plus decades, I've noticed a difference. In our society the word cheating carries different meaning than infidelity.

This is important for someone discerning the signs of a cheating spouse or the signs of infidelity. A person who "cheats" is different from someone who is involved in "infidelity."

Cheating is most closely described in my e-book as someone who "Doesn't Want to Say No." This is only one of 7 kinds of affairs. The other six kinds of affairs lean more in the direction of infidelity.

The true cheater is a rather rare bird, but is probably most glamorized and comes closest to our stereotype of cheating or infidelity.

Infidelity, in general, is marked by confusion, pain, doubt, ambivalence and a period of craziness in a person's life.

Cheating is an ongoing lifestyle.

Here are some signs of a cheating spouse: (substitute the word she for he, if you like.)
1. There most likely will be more than one other person. He sees affairs as conquests, usually sexual, and not as a place to find intimacy. Actually he lacks many of the tools and the mind set to have intimate relationships. He most likely will move from one conquest to another. His gratification on a basic level remains primary.

2. He will have little internal conflict about the affair. This differs markedly from the person who can't say no. Your spouse will view the affair or affairs as entitlement. He deserves them. He deserves to be adored. He deserves to have excitement and personal gratification in his life. He has earned it. There is nothing wrong with this. Actually others, perhaps you included, ought to understand this!

3. He will operate in a world that supports his illusion and behaviour. He will surround himself with those who look the other way or actually encourage his philandering behaviour. You will probably not find yourself welcomed in this world. He and his colleagues and friends collude to maintain their world.

4. You might run into a problem with the other person or persons. Remember the movie, Fatal Attraction? The other person might attach herself to him with specific expectations to be cared for and perhaps married - perhaps part of his strategy in his conquest efforts. When she is "dumped" or the expectations fail to materialize she may pursue revenge. You might be involved.

5. You may not experience a great deal of conflict with him. There is no talk of divorce. Your life might be quite copasetic - unless you rock the boat. He has his playtime and you fill another specific role of quiet support. Keep the balance and life moves along fairly seamlessly.

6. There is one problem, however. The problem of aging. Depending on his social context, you might become a liability as you increasingly fail to project a young attractive vibrant image. He wants those around him to reflect back beauty and perfection. If you fail in this regard you may be cast aside. Part of this depends on the financial cost of such "trade-in."

7. His fragile, illusionary world and yours may crumble if he encounters failure. Failure is his "Achilles heel." Unfortunately, the distortion and illusion he lives under do not always coincide with reality. He pushes and bends the rules to his advantage. He may not pay close attention to the consequences of his behaviour. Those consequences - legal, financial or health - may bite him at some point. He most likely will count on you to be there for him, to cry on your shoulder (perhaps literally) and help him regain his confidence.

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